Summer 2013

Ruby Jubilee

Ruby Jubilee was born via c-section at the end of May! After a week long NICU stay, we happily came home and have been making up for lost snuggles ever since.

She was a roly-poly 9lbs at birth, and has gained very well! After three long days of IV nutrition, she was able to start colostrum in bottles, then nursing. Thankfully after a few days and some tips from the awesome lactation consultant, she figured out nursing and we haven't had any more issues.

Now we are enjoying figuring out four under six! So far, frozen meals, Netflix, and help with the housework as I recover from surgery have been lifesavers. I knew a c-section recovery would be harder, but didn't realize just how much longer and more painful it would be.

I may share more of a birth story at some point, but the short version is that at 42 weeks I finally went into labor, the midwife was almost here and the birth pool was filling when I had alarming bleeding. We transferred and found that she was a face presentation, so I was quickly prepped for a c-section, which went pretty well. Afterwards things did not go as planned- Ruby was transferred to a larger hospital for fluid in her lungs, elevated white blood cell count, elevated heart and respiratory rate. She had some breathing issues, as well as some stomach dystension, that concerned the doctors in addition to their concerns that she might have an infection. By the time I was able to join her two days after birth, she looked much better, and we were able to hold her for the first time. :)

new

 We're so enjoying setting into our new home!  The piles of boxes are slowly shrinking, the missing items are surfacing one by one (still AWOL: sewing machine foot and preschool workbook!) and we're loving having more space and more time together as a family!

Nathan and Miriam have their own rooms for the first time, which they are really enjoying.  It gives them more room to spread out and play, and also means fewer of the toys end up in other parts of the house, which is nice for cleanup.

We've made a couple of Lowes trips, for a mailbox and other necessities, (and more are in our future!) but it's mostly just cosmetic things that need repaired, which is nice after dealing with more major renovations. :)

We still need to replace a shower, paint a few rooms, install a ceiling fan and ceiling light in the living room and office (done!), and finish the rest of the porch (Micah already did the railings, the fresh white is so crisp and looks great!) among other things, but we're taking one thing at a time and enjoying the smaller, bite sized projects.

Being closer to town has been great too.  The kids and I have had some fun visits with other moms and kids, and we've gotten a wonderful routine of going to the weekly library storytime.  We've been able to get together for dinner during the week several times for dinner with other families, and we even went out on a date and spent more time shopping and enjoying dinner than driving!  Grocery shopping is more manageable with the 20 minute round trip instead of an hour and a half.  And if I drive just a little farther, I can go to Aldi instead, which I love.  Seems like usually my grocery money goes quite a bit further there. :)

Having Micah home an hour earlier most nights is especially good right now...since I came down with my fourth case of the Egyptian flu* and spending time in the kitchen cooking...intensified my symptoms.

Let's just say that a small child eating their breakfast and watching me trying to get myself a bowl of cereal six weeks ago asked, rather logically, if the baby was going to come out my mouth when it was done growing! ;)  

I am 18 weeks now, still having a little morning sickness but its definitely improved!  So far, this has been the pregnancy of midnight salads, green apples & green apple gummy candy, sprite, and cereal.  Oh, and lots of ice cream.  And this is the first pregnancy that pickles have sounded good!  (But no...not with the ice cream!) ;)

 

* (you're sick for nine months and then you become a Mummy.  I know! So cheesy.  Can I plead pregnancy brain making me find that funny...?)

moving

I haven't posted about it here until now because I didn't want to say anything until it was officially happening, but we've been hoping to move for several months now and is actually, finally, really happening!

We are so excited and can't wait to move.

We love this house so much.

We've been here since the day we got married and had five very happy years and three babies here.

Three baptismal feasts.

One hospital stay.

Three babies learning how to walk.

Car accidents and mistakes and frustrations and joys and laughter and Christmas and birthdays.

LIFE.

It's been good.

But.

Micah's daily commute and the price of gas and the higher price of him spending hours daily on the road just don't make this spot add up for us any more.

Also, we have been feeling more and more that especially in this season of our life with small children that rural life just isn't the best fit for us.

None of them can milk a cow or round up loose chickens yet, or anytime soon, and gas is so expensive that it is a little lonely during the week as well for me and the kids.  

We're looking forward to being closer to our church family as well as other friends, and having Micah home more!

  I have to keep reminding myself moving doesn't mean leaving the memories.

We have a lot of wonderful memories here and we'll take those with us.

We'll always have those, and we'll make new ones in a different space and that's ok.

I have been very calm and rational and excited about the move and all the benefits...

(larger house! more space! more than one closet in the house! Micah home so much more!)

...until last weekend, when I broke down and sobbed all over Micah's shoulder about how we had our babies here! our picket fence! etc. etc.

Having grieved a bit, I'm feeling much cheerier about everything and have been packing like mad, especially since our moving date moved up two weeks.  Cue panic!

Micah's been taking a load every day on his way to work, so that has really helped, but there is still a lot of packing and cleaning and organizing and 'Oh my goodness we are never having a junk drawer again this is ridiculous!' in addition to all the normal crazy.

I keep reminding myself this too shall pass! and eating chocolate chips out of the bag conveniently hidden in the door of the freezer.  Hopefully lugging boxes everywhere evens out the chocolate consumption...! ;)

Cloth Diaper Update

Quite awhile ago I posted about cloth diapering and what was working for us then.  I've changed our wash routine, got Nathan and Miriam out of diapers, and cloth diapered Levi since birth...so I think its time for an update!


I do cloth diaper at night and out and about now.  The occasional box of diapers comes in, like on a recent week long trip, but now that I'm down to diapering one again, it isn't too hard in comparison to stick to almost exclusive cloth.  And I found that I don't have the self control to use them only for outings/weekends/overnight so it's best for me just to use cloth almost always.


A very sweet friend passed on her cloth diaper stash to me, which included some super cute WAHM diapers...those are some of my favorites right now!  Most of those I can't identify, so no links, sorry.  I also love the medium Fuzzi Bunz I have.



I also use fitted diapers, or prefolds with a Snappi.  I started my cloth diapering journey using pins and plastic pants, and honestly I don't like either.  Thirsties are much easier for a dirty diapers, since plastic pants have to be pulled off over the legs, also, plastic pants are not adjustable. As well, Thirsties covers have leg gussets, which REALLY cut down on leaks! I have the medium size.  They are a lot cheaper than Fuzzi Bunz, for sure, and if I had known how easy to use they were, especially with the Snappi or with fitted diapers, I might have just purchased them instead right from the start.

As far as washing, it is really simple.  I'll shake dirty toddler diapers out into the toilet, but baby diapers and wet diapers go straight into a dry pail.  When I'm ready to wash, I shake the liners out of the diapers, and fold the velcro over on the Thirsties.  Then I run a cold rinse and a warm or hot wash, then another cold rinse. When I wrote my last post, I was using soap nuts, however I realized that with our extremely hard water, they were causing buildup on the PUL fabric on some of my diapers.  I bought a box of Ecos from Amazon and have been very happy with it both for diapers and for the rest of our laundry.

So... that's my update! Any questions?  If you cloth diaper, what are your favorite diapers?  

 

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Reader

We kind of had a big event happen last week.  Nathan read his first book!

We've been having a lot of fun doing more preschool stuff lately.  The back to school sale aisle is always so tempting to me, and finally I felt justified in purchasing some school supplies!  I also picked up a few workbooks that have really been a big hit (like, "can we do another page?!"type success), and have been doing some of Teach Your Child To Read in 100 Easy Lessons.  We've made it to lesson 6, so far.  Initially, I was very enthusiastic about it, just because it was so simple and he enjoyed it so much.  The "say it fast" game really was fun for him, and I could see how it really helped him gear up for sounding out and then saying words.  

But as we progressed past the first few lessons, I was troubled by a few things.  The approach of having lines over vowels to indicate the long vowel sound confused him right off the bat - he knows all his letter sounds already from The Letter Factory, and so telling him that ē says 'eeee' when he gleefully shouted 'eh!' felt a little advanced for beginning reading.  I talked to another mom who said that her daughter was frustrated in later lessons as those symbols began to be phased out.  I really want to avoid frustration and confusion, so I started skipping the long vowel sections in each lesson.  That seemed a little ridiculous, so we ended up skipping it more and more days and playing with letter puzzle pieces and sounding out words I wrote out on paper instead.  I will say that the "say it fast" practice did seem to be helpful as he transitioned from making each sound individually to saying the word.  I'm not sure if I'll end up doing more with it or not, at this point.  I may do more of it with my next kiddo, but for now we may not need to keep on with it especially with my doubts about some of the approach.

I made some cards (I love index cards so much!)  with simple words that stuck to basic vowel sounds.  He loved arranging them in sentences and this week made the leap into sounding it out and then saying it independently, not just being led through it.  I had SO much fun watching him gleefully master word after word, and not want to stop.  

Since he was doing so well with those, I dug out Pan and the Mad Man, one of the readers from the boxed kindergarten set from Veritas Press.  It's a great set but seems really involved to me, better suited for a classroom, or maybe just not suited well to me with having three little ones right now.  It seems like it takes a lot of planning and prep work, which is a drawback for me right now.  My mom used it for three of my brothers and handed it down, so I have the luxury of picking and choosing from it without feeling like I invested in it and have to use it all.

The other drawback is that I don't like the script it teaches, which is italicized and intended to transition better to cursive.  I would prefer to have them master a solid, neat printing hand before cursive and not start out with the curved tails and slanted letters.  But there are things I love about it - the readers are nicely illustrated and imaginative, the puzzle pieces with letters on them (that can be combined into words) are genius, and the CD with catchy songs about phonics rules is great.  I think that I'll be dipping into the Veritas Press Phonics Museum box more and more as we get into more complicated words, since I love their emphasis on the "rules" of why words sound the way they do.  

However we end up proceeding, I'm just so excited that Nathan read his very first book.  It feels like a huge milestone to this bookworm mama, and I'm so thankful to be able to help him learn and watch his face light up with that feeling of accomplishment.

What methods have you tried, if you've taught your kids to read? And...any beginning reader recommendations? :)